Best expression of yourself

This is a challenge for me because it's the first time that I am writing content, and I choose to do this for my site, for my child "Metamorphosis". I chose to do this even if I am not perfect, just because I simply love all my imperfection. There was a time in my life when I wanted everything to be perfect, but I understood that looking for perfection may ruin your life, may cause overthinking, may damage your relationships, can cause stress( big time stress) and makes you loose the present moment just trying to control the outcomes. Yesterday, I was watching one video and one of the trainers said " 90-95 % our lives is failure, and only 5 to 10% is real success". I believe our true challenge in life is to become the best version of our self and to put into the world our most authentic, true self that may inspire the people around in such a way that they will crave and wish to make changes. But why change? Because change means progress and progress means evolution, and evolution means changing beliefs and that means changing perspective and that means freedom of the soul, spirit , means living your dreams not somebody else's dreams. Everything starts with a choice, everything in life is choice. If you choose not to choose it's also a choice. What is so big and important that your soul is craving for, that makes you want to move mountains right now? How will my life be different if I choose to do this( the thing that you desire, the person that you want, the relationship that you always wished for....etc)?. This is an awesome journey, a journey of self discovery, a journey of mastering your own truth, the truth about who you really are, about what you really wish, about what you think you deserve, about your own worthiness and most important about your soul. The journey is not easy either, sometimes is painful, sometimes means solitude, sometimes means giving up at things that no longer serve you, means releasing old patterns that may trigger you, means releasing old negative emotions, past traumas and sometimes means no "old friends"( been there, done that). But do not worry, new friends, people and opportunities are coming your way, and this time the ones that you consciously choose, and are more in tune with the new you.

Most of the people, including me ( before all of this ), we do not think we deserve the things, the people, the opportunities, the gifts that Universe is throwing and showering upon us, just because we do not consider ourselves worthy to have 'this' and 'that', and because we were taught this way. Who taught us this way? Parents, caregivers, relatives, circumstances, situations, events, relationships...and so on. For example: A mother can say to her child" If you get this grade (A) you will get this phone, or worse she could say" mommy will love you more and will buy that bicycle." Why is it wrong? Because the child will think that otherwise mommy will not love him and he will not get the bicycle, so he is not worthy or he doesn't deserve the love, the affection,or the object. So he starts to doubt about himself, about his worthiness and this will appear in his or her life later every time in different situation. As an adult he doesn't know why he is doing the same with others or why people question his/her behavior. When he/she will choose to change the belief everything around changes. He will realize the worthiness of his being, will realize that he deserve that love, that object...that relationship and guess what he will start to love himself more and he will start to do things for his own being but this time because he choses it consciously not because the society, or parents, or partner  pushed him to do it. And this may go on with every aspect of our life.  Choosing to live our life and find ourselves it may be a difficult journey but is the most rewarding because it will put us on the right life path in order to fulfill our soul's mission, meaning the best expression of our true essence. And that is evolution and progress!

Love and light!

Andra